Ordered this for my husband while I was still barely functioning. Standard size https://memorystones.us/produc....ts/flat-granite-grav , standard granite, and a form to fill in was about all I could manage. The proof came back and I sat with it three days before approving, and nobody pushed me. It was set eleven weeks after he died. Two inches thick, which is what our cemetery requires and what most rejections are about. Shipping was included and the total never changed. One thing that did not go wrong.