Socializing at nightlife venues feels amazing, the excitement of meeting new people inebriating us. However the jitters hit when you're interested in a lady and want to woo her.
Let's take a look at the top tips on how to approach a girl at a bar:
- Be Confident
It's always about the first impression. It's important to look and feel your best, as women prefer men who are sure of themselves. Approach her confidently and use humor or a common ground to start a conversation with her.
- Dress Smart
The first thing women notice is the way you dress. Make sure your shoes are tidy and your hair well-combed before you make that approach. However, don't take things over the top. Looking confident and sharp will do the trick.
- Approach Confidently
If the girl is in a group, it may become daunting to approach her. However, use intellectual humor and try to impress her gang as a whole. Remember to be polite and smile decently every now and then to lighten the mood.
- Embrace your Masculinity
Women have a thing for brooding men who exhibit a sense of pride. Social studies have indicated that looking proud accentuates your masculine features, which the ladies love.
- Be Calm
Don't show her that you're nervous, even if you are. Indulge in a healthy conversation and check your body language. Keep your hands across the table without leaning too much into it.
- Avoid Excessive Drinking
Drinking excessively can also injure your first impression. We suggest 2-3 drinks at the max to enjoy your time with her.
These were just the basics of what to do and what not to do when you want to woo a woman at a bar. In the end, it depends on your skills to spark a conversation and capture her intrigue.
But remember the gentleman's code here and never cause discomfort or be disrespectful towards anyone you meet at a club. So make that move ad make it a morable.